Communication Experience – April 1

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We may not realize this right now, but this is the reason we have a Transitional Pastor; Don is helping us get ready for our next lead pastor at King’s Grant. We want unity. We want togetherness. We want peace. We want wholeness and health… then we must get busy doing the necessary work for God to change us. The entire congregation is invited to this communication experience.

We will begin in the fellowship hall.
If you need child care through grade six, please RSVP by sending an e-mail to Amy or use our staff contact form.
Participants can expect some teaching on our ultimate communication tool (prayer), spending some time actually praying together under the leadership of the transition team, and finally, communicating with one another.

SCHEDULED ACTIVITIES:
Fellowship and Refreshment Time – 8:30 until 9:00
Don Teaching on Transforming Prayer – 9:00 until 9:45
Breakout Groups Engaged in Prayer – 9:45 until 10:15
Break – 10:15-10:30
Don Teaching on Communication and Listening Skills – 10:30 until 11:30
Breakout Groups with Listening Session – 11:30 until 12:30
Don wraps up the Communication Experience by 1:00

Ken’s Encouragement to Pray for Ukraine

One February 27, Ken led the church in corporate prayer for the situation and suffering of the Ukrainian people. We wanted to include that information here.

Today, pray for Ukraine. Pray for those who are in harm’s way at this very moment. Pray for families torn apart. Pray for a country torn apart. Pray against the evil that perpetuates through every part of their lives.

[inlinetweet]Pray for the church in Ukraine. Pray for protection and boldness. They are our brothers and sisters.[/inlinetweet] We stand with them not only through humanitarian expression, but more closely related to them than even by blood – we are related to them by Spirit.

Pray for our brothers and sisters in Christ in Ukraine.

The President of the Ukrainian Baptist Theological Seminary recently said, “The church will go underground. You have to understand that historically we had that experience before under the Soviet Union. So, the church did not forget what does it mean to be persecuted, and we will rearrange, reorganize, and still do what we always do, still preach the gospel.”

So today, take courage dear Christian. [inlinetweet]Join our brothers and sisters in Ukraine, and let us continue to speak out and live out the Gospel.[/inlinetweet] This becomes urgent now more than ever. Jesus has always been, and will always be our only hope.

We tell you the good news: What God promised our ancestors, He has fulfilled for us, by raising up Jesus.
Acts 13:32-33

Pray for Ukraine

[ Sculpture gallery at National Museum of the History of Ukraine in the Second World War Memorial Complex ]

With the news of war and the Russian military bombing cities in Ukraine, we recognize that it is not just an issue for “people over there” but that lives and souls are at stake. This situation is personal because we know people who have connections to friends and loved ones in Ukraine.

We have first-hand accounts of family hiding underground in Kyiv (Kee-eve, not Kee-ev – we support the way Ukrainians pronounce their capital city). There are rockets and air raids with people hiding in underground subways. Family members can’t escape due to physical limitations and being surrounded by Russian troops. Bombing and destruction are happening all around them. Pray, pray, pray…

[inlinetweet]Pray for the people of Ukraine, whose world is shattering before their eyes. Women, children, old people — this is not just about old leaders sending young men off to war.[/inlinetweet]

Pray for peace in the midst of escalating Russian-Ukrainian tensions. Pray that Putin will repent and withdraw his troops.

Pray for leaders to exercise wisdom and restraint as they navigate the complexities of life in this region. May God draw these leaders to himself and humble the hearts of prideful leaders.

Pray for believers in this area to remain strong and bold in their faith and seek ways to care for those around them.

Pray that the church will be on their knees in Ukraine and around the world, lifting this situation before the throne of grace.

Pray that the gospel will be heard and received, and may believers testify to God’s peace that surpasses all comprehension. May God help his children to trust him in the midst of sorrow and destruction.

Pray for the surrounding nations to welcome and prepare for the coming tide of refugees, to show love and hospitality to people who are losing everything through no fault of their own. Protect those fleeing for safety.

Pray for the strength of first responders and those on the front lines of destruction, committed to helping others. Let these hurting people seek Jesus as a peaceful presence in the midst of suffering.

I was reminded today of a powerful verse, Exodus 14:14 – “The Lord will fight for you while you keep silent.”

[inlinetweet]Lord, have mercy. Come Holy Spirit and bring your comfort and assurance. Let your people stand in faith when their faith falls short. We trust in the Prince of Peace to give his people strength.[/inlinetweet] May our silence (in Exodus 14:14) be in awe of God’s greatness, which will drive us to our knees in calling out to the God of all comfort.

Praying for Our City

To the Community of Faith at King’s Grant Baptist Church:

Tonight I join you in grieving the tragedy that unfolded in our city this afternoon. The shooting at the Municipal Center of Virginia Beach has gripped our hearts, and when now stand together to seek God’s presence, strength, comfort, and help in this significant time of need. (If this is the first you have heard of the event, please tune in to your local news or webcasts for updates.)

In the midst of crisis we can still trust God. From the Scriptures we read, “What time I am afraid I will trust in God” (Psalm 56:3). Psalm 71:5 proclaims, “For You are my hope, O Lord God, you are my trust from my youth.” In Deuteronomy 31:8 we are reminded, “the Lord goes before you and He will be with you, He will not leave you nor forsake you. Do not fear and be not dismayed.”

Jesus said, “Peace I leave you, my peace I give you.” And, we can be assured that God is “the Father of mercies and the the God of all comfort” (2 Corinthians 1:3).

Tonight, we join all who are affected by this event in trusting God and holding tight to His hands that hold us up at this time. Through the name of Jesus Christ, we are assured that God’s promises are true, and God has promised to be with us and walk with us, even in times of shock, grief, confusion, and fear.

Tonight, may we “love our city” as we pray. Join me tonight in remembering the victims, the victim’s families, our law enforcement and first responders, our city officials and employees, our physicians and medical staff, and our city as a whole.

God is with us. His strength, power, and love will be evident among us like never before. Throughout the weekend, we will continue to reach out through email about growing prayer needs and possible times of organized prayer.

Thank you in advance for your prayers for our city that we sincerely love.

Blessings tonight as we continue to walk in this time of grief, loss, trust, and hope as we love our city.

In Christ,
Pastor Ken

Class on Effective Prayer

This class will help emphasize our renewed efforts toward being a people of prayer. Billie Todd has prepared an extensive study through the Scriptures on the topic, which is not just information but practical application.

Use the Connection Card on Sunday to sign up for the class. There is a detailed workbook, so registration is greatly appreciated.

A Prayer of Trust

During this time of transition, we hoped to bring peace in the midst of anxiety or fear by pouring our hearts out to God; we have offered prayers of confession, prayers for openness and eagerness for listening as the Spirit speaks to us, and praying for wisdom which comes from the Father. Today is all about taking ourselves out of the picture and letting God do his work through us.

A classic passage on following the Lord comes from Proverbs 3:5-6, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him and he will make your path straight.” There are three things to consider here:

  1. Trust in the Lord – walk with him through the darkness of life when the path cannot be seen,
  2. Don’t lean on our own understanding – wait on the Lord rather than taking control and usurping authority; basically we take ourselves out of the picture and let God mold us into the people he desires for his kingdom’s sake,
  3. Acknowledge him, not in many ways or in most of our ways, but in ALL our ways. That is all about trust and surrender.

Our attitude must be similar to that of the experiences of Jeremiah at the potter’s house. When does the clay say to the Creator, “Why have you made me this way? I’m not sure this is your best work. I prefer to be made this way.” In the illustration in Jeremiah 18:4, “But the vessel that he was making of clay was spoiled in the hand of the potter; so he remade it into another vessel, as it pleased the potter to make.”

At times the Creator will smash the clay and remake it into something totally different, as HE wills, and for HIS sake. THAT involves extreme change. But we say, “We don’t like change!” After reading this story, how can we, the people of God, call ourselves “the people of God” yet refuse to allow him to shape us into the vessel he desires? WE as a staff are NOT calling for such change, but we MUST ask ourselves the question, “What if GOD did, would we be so submissive?”

On a personal spiritual level, we have to take a look at Galatians 2:20, “I have been crucified with Christ; and it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself up for me.”

When we become followers of Jesus, we recognize that we give up our individual rights to our lives and preferences. Christ lives through us, we no longer live for ourselves, but for Jesus. We surrender to his calling and his mission for us as the church. We develop an outward focus toward those who are not yet a part of this congregation. THIS is the change that God desires whether or not we have a senior pastor at King’s Grant.

So, we have prayed to confess, to listen, to seek wisdom, and finally to trust; to trust that our Lord will change us and the church into that which he desires for his divine purposes.

Let’s bow for our prayer for the interim time:

Father, we come before you admitting that we are frail, weak, and prone to selfishness. After we confess our sin to you, we humbly ask that you help us to eliminate our desire to control, manipulate, and lean on our own understanding. We want to trust you but admit that walking in the dark is scary. We don’t know what the future holds but we know who holds the future. Help us to realize that while we walk in darkness, we walk alongside of the one who is light, and in him there is no darkness at all. While we are a people of faith, yet we ask that you help us when our faith falls short.

Since we are followers of Jesus Christ, remind us daily that we are crucified with Christ and that the life we now live we do not live for ourselves but for the sinless one who died and gave himself up for us. Change us from the inside out. Mold us into the people you want us to be. Make us uncomfortable with the status quo. Help us to trust the Savior of our souls. Help us to rest in the fact that we are not left without direction. Remind us of the mission before us, left to us by the Lord himself, to always be about the Father’s business.

Let us be as clay in the potter’s house. As scary as this is, start fresh if that is your will. We trust in your kindness, mercy, wisdom, patience, timing, discipline, restoration, purpose, plan, and protection. May we be a light to the world, shining out to those who do not yet know the lover of our souls.

May we sense the burden of lost souls around us, those who are far from God, not caring about the grace, mercy, and forgiveness that you provide. May the waters of baptism be filled on a regular basis for those who have, like the prodigal son, have come to their senses and returned to the Father. May wayward children, even adult children, be brought back to you. Encourage us to never tire of doing good to those around us. Use us for your purposes and convict us of our preferences during this interim time.

We ask all of this in the name of Jesus, our Lord and Savior, AMEN

Interim Prayer – Part 2

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These are uncertain times. And we don’t repeat this to create or promote fear, but it is our impression that people are pretty concerned about the selection of a new pastor, the process of the search committee, the people who may be leading the church, and what are we supposed to do while we wait for God’s timing? Ambiguity and anxiety.

The place to start is prayer, and last week, Beth very eloquently and accurately led us in a prayer of confession. I sat right over there with tears in my eyes contemplating the words spoken and the significance and importance of this prayer of confession over the congregation. We are called to get right with God. This is certainly no condemnation of the people in this congregation, because who among us cannot take a few more active steps getting closer to God, I mean, obeying his commands, denying self, taking up our cross daily, and following Jesus. None of us has arrived, and just the time we believe ourselves to already be right with God, or that we are holy and deserving, this may be a clear indication that we have much farther to go.

Today we look at what we need to be doing during this interim time. The temptation is to take charge of our own church affairs. But as I mentioned last week, if we truly believe that God is sovereign, and nothing catches him off guard, and he is looking out for the best interests of the church… and remember it is HIS church and not our own… therefore we must choose to cast our cares on him because he cares for us, resulting in our ability to rest in the fact that God has all of this sorted out.

There is an immediate strategy that we find in Scripture. Rather than seek ways to take control or manipulate events and outcomes, let us renew our commitment of surrendering ourselves to God’s leadership and timing. Remember that HE is in charge. Trust in God, yet also have confidence in your staff, the people whom God has gathered to serve alongside of you in this place.

Before I lead us in prayer, let’s look at the early church as an example of how and when they heard from God and then acted on his leading.

Acts 13:1-3, New International Version (NIV)

Now in the church at Antioch there were prophets and teachers: Barnabas, Simeon called Niger, Lucius of Cyrene, Manaen (who had been brought up with Herod the tetrarch) and Saul. 2 While they were worshiping the Lord and fasting, the Holy Spirit said, “Set apart for me Barnabas and Saul for the work to which I have called them.” 3 So after they had fasted and prayed, they placed their hands on them and sent them off.

Initial Observations:

  1. While they were worshipping the Lord and fasting – they were remaining faithful to that which God had called them to do, worship and prayer.
  2. Then they heard the Holy Spirit – during worship and prayer, THEN they heard from the Holy Spirit
  3. Then they took action, after fasting and prayer – after hearing from God, not before, they followed the Lord’s command.

Prayer:

Father, we come before you in humility acknowledging that we don’t have all the answers, nor do we deserve any of the answers. We are sinful human beings seeking your face, seeking your presence, and seeking your forgiveness. We are a people of faith, yet we plead with you to help us when our faith falls short. We are people that tend to worry and often do not exercise our faith nearly enough.

We are in a time of transition, which inherently means “to change.” We tend to fall back on the emotion of fear whenever we are confronted with change but Father, help us to acknowledge that all living things grow, and that growth necessitates change.

We are thankful that as we have grown older that our bodies did not stay the same, that our minds did not stay the same, that our emotions did not stay the same. In our relationships or in our marriage, we rejoice that we did not remain the same, but you caused growth, and change, and maturity, which brought our relationships to a whole new level. We are grateful for that change. You are a God who desires to bring change into your people’s lives, by offering salvation to us, the most undeserving human beings to walk the earth.

By reading of the example of the early church, we pray that we will be a people found actively pursuing the face of God through worship, Bible study, prayer, devotion, and even fasting. Let us be a people who will chase after YOU rather than chasing that which you can provide.

Help us to listen for the voice of the Holy Spirit, and make it so plain that there will be no doubt, individually or corporately as a congregation. Just as sheep will only follow their true and authentic shepherd, we plead that you will drown out all the competing voices that hinder us from hearing your voice and recognizing your moving through this congregation. May you impede the plans of those who lean toward disunity or selfishness. May we trust you in all matters of life, and as a congregation, we pray that we will trust you to lead us through this interim time.

Keep us focused on worship and prayer, speak to us as we faithfully chase after God, humble us when we tend to rise up in pride, comfort us when we begin to fear, and help us to see your direction for us, in your timing.

We give this service to you, and like the church at Antioch, we pray that what we are doing here is pleasing in your sight, and that the Holy Spirit will speak to us as we continue carrying out the mission that you left in our hands. It is such a joy to know that we don’t go through life alone, but that you walk with us through it all. Our prayer today is not that you walk with us through this interim time, but that we walk with you.

This is our prayer, this is our heart, this is our humble request, in the powerful name of Jesus Christ our Lord, AMEN.

Interim Prayer – Part 1

Beth Anderson led the church in a prayer of confession, on our first Sunday without a senior pastor. We are calling the congregation to seasons of prayer, and confession is the best starting point.